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cities have the capability of providing something for everybody, only because, and only when, they are created by everybody – jane jacobs

Transportation pet peeves

1. Cars & trucks making deliveries, especially on typically fast-moving one-way streets, which take up a lane of traffic rather than pulling over all the way into the parking lane when there is plenty of room to do so.  Nothing seems more dangerous about city driving than the ritual of everyone trying to merge at the last minute in order to avoid getting stuck behind said vehicle.

2. Pedestrians who are completely disconnected from the world around them and make no effort to be courteous to drivers.  Yes, pedestrians have the right of way, but it makes sense to pick up the pace a bit (or at least look like you’re trying to) when someone is waiting on you.

3. Bicyclists who do not obey stop signs or traffic signals.  I respect you for the physical energy you’re putting into being greener and cheaper than me when I’m in a car, but you are subject to the same regulations as vehicles and it’s for your own good!  It drives me crazy when a biker comes to a near collision with a vehicle and gets all pissed off when he just completely ran a stop sign.  The vehicle is looking for other vehicles at or near the intersection, not a biker 25 yards away who is going fast enough to be in the intersection once the driver starts moving forward.

Cities are not static, says Gabriel Metcalf

I’ve loved SPUR ever since I moved to San Francisco, but this SF Examiner interview with Gabriel Metcalf, its Executive Director, had me floored.  The narrative is not particularly fascinating but Metcalf is spot on when it comes to density, and not just as an abstract idea, but adding density here, in this very place (trying to convey this with a Rachel Maddow grin).   You can see in the comments to the original article that this is not so popular.

One of the biggest issues for Metcalf is the lack of development in The City, which he said is the root of most problems. The City would be much more affordable if housing at all price levels was allowed to proceed without San Francisco’s strict zoning codes, he said.

Metcalf says making it affordable for suburban home dwellers to move to The City will solve some social and environmental problems, a philosophy that has been reinforced after having children.

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San Francisco also needs to focus on fighting climate change. We can accomplish that by channeling all Bay Area growth in San Francisco and by making public transportation so appealing and enticing that it encourages people to leave their cars at home.

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The buildings of The City, the infrastructure of a city, changes over time. Cities are not static unless you want to make it a museum piece.

I. M. Paying

Loved Ted’s nerdy architecture dream on last night’s episode of How I Met Your Mother:

[Narrated] And then I proceeded to waste a half hour of those bastards’ lives telling them about this dream I had where I ate dinner with my top 5 favorite architects throughout history.  [Fast forward] And then, at the end of the meal, Frank Gehry slides the check over to I.M. Pei and he says, “Buddy, tonight your name is I.M. Paying.”  Buckminster Fuller almost did a spit take!

Filming mystery solved

Remember that December morning when I snapped a few photos of film crews in the nabe wondering what they were up to (reference “Filming in Hayes Valley”)?  Well, I stumbled upon the answer today–a 10-minute Acura commercial shown only in China.  Credit goes to hayesvalley.com for scooping this lovely clip.  I think the mood of San Francisco daily life is pretty well captured except for the Beach Boys soundtrack.

The real world threw up all over us

How twentysomethings are coping with the recession, an article by Emily Bazelon in Slate:

Apprehension, with an enduring edge to it. That’s the general mood among the twentysomethings I’ve heard from during the last several weeks in response to a question I asked about how the recession is making them feel. The fear isn’t just about the present but about the long-term future. Octopuslike, it has many tentacles. But the most strangling aspect, I think, is the perception of my Gen Y e-mailers that they dutifully set up their lives based on assumptions that suddenly no longer apply. They’re anxious because they can’t tell what the new rules of the game will be—or because they think they can tell, and they don’t like what they see coming at them.

The recession is one of the primary reasons I have been so quiet on myurbanrevolution.com this year.  Not only has it been difficult to delight in my usual interests long enough to transmit them from my brain through the keyboard and into something intelligible on the screen, but it’s been a time of inner retreat, of reevaluating priorities, and of focusing on survival (in both a completely serious and simultaneously non-Darwinian sense).  I’ve always been a big planner (I knew I wanted to go to Stanford at age six then implemented) and consequently a big worrier, so my “healthy” short-term post-graduation approach focused on adjusting to the working world and positioning myself within it without much regard for the future in financial terms beyond the next rent payment or so.  This was partially based on the prospect of eventually attending graduate school which would put me into so much debt that any saving I did in advance would be negligible based upon the income I was at least initially making.  It was also a lifestyle choice because I refused to completely postpone enjoyment.  (Aside: last year, friends of mine in the Class of 2003 returned to the farm for their five year reunion to find that five names of 1600 or so already had been marked “deceased” in their programs.  It’s foolish to hang your happiness only on the future, something overachievers are wont to do.)  After all, this was what I had worked so hard for my whole life–to get to this point of opportunity and complete self-determination.

I took for granted that I would always have an income so long as I chose–and a growing one at that so that all things would become increasingly possible and life increasingly better with time.  If anything, I was training myself in patience, doing my best to tone out the nagging frustration that, for all my potential and for all my success, it would be a long road to the urban American Dream.

Out of nowhere, a paycheck became the new status symbol.  That’s not to say I hadn’t thought at length about the flaws in our economic system (how can my generation buy houses off of our parents’ generation if the houses had quadrupled or more in supposed value over twenty years without corresponding increases in income or relative income?), but there was no particular reason to think it would fall apart at this specific moment more than any other.

At the beginning of my awareness of the recession, I had actually already started a semi-serious savings plan, but the wrong kind!  Based on what would normally be considered the sound advice of my elder coworkers, halfway through the year, I started aggressively withholding from my paycheck in a 401k which focused on long-term security to the detriment of my short term security.  This offered both tax benefits and prevented me from deciding one day that my savings would buy a great new piece of technology or furniture or group rental of a ski cabin for the winter.  Fortunately, I was smart enough to funnel my 401k earnings into cash and bonds since it was already apparent that even low risk stocks were not performing.  Since early November, I have been in panic mode–thinking of little but saving ten more dollars here, twenty more dollars there, needing to build a reserve fund and fast.  I count my savings in terms of how many months of rent I am ahead.  I refused to let go of my 401k plans which made this all the more difficult as it did not feel like there was a lot of room for improvement in my monthly budget given the fixed costs of modern urban life (rent, health care, utilities, cell phone, basic hair and make up).

But my, I have learned to live cheaply.

I wouldn’t say I am at ease now, but I have adjusted my expectations and done what I can to spin the challenges endured so far and those that lie ahead in the most positive light possible.  As Mayor Gavin Newsom said in a recent speech I attended, everyone always says we’re in a crisis when in fact it’s only a crisis before you have a plan.  On the bright side, for those of us not too invested in the status quo, the economic adjustment (such as housing prices) will ultimately benefit us.  So long as I have a job, my buying power has actually increased for now ($30 for a full tank of gas, for example, though that’s negative progress for the sustainability movement).  Already, newspapers are saying that longtime renters in San Francisco who never expected to own a home finally are considering it.  Similarly, the rental market has gotten less cutthroat than it used to be.  These days it has become socially acceptable to reference your budget in declining invitations to expensive activities (which I used to consider social obligations) whose enjoyment does not outweigh their cost.  I’ve always thought about life a little in terms of an operating expense budget (how much does it cost per day to breathe, for example, if you have asthma?).  Previously, if I explained that ordering a bottle of wine with dinner would surely throw my $16/day food budget, I would have come off as anal and perhaps a bit odd.  Today I might be respected for my self-control.

I’ve curbed wants so that they don’t feel unfulfilled.  I attended a black tie wedding and put the desire for a new dress out of mind.  I cut back on Christmas gifts and made some of them.  I haven’t completely stopped eating out (take out is still a good option, especially when dishes can be split or left overs can be made into lunch), but I learned to cook dishes good enough to distract me from the desire to do so every day.  I’ve been on a health kick in general to aid focus and drink only sparingly, another way that my generation tends to blow money sans the requisite satisfaction.  And, overall, I am thankful to be in the position that I am in.  I have renewed appreciation for the fact that I am able to live independently and have the resources to find a way to stay independent–creatively finding supplementary income, drawing on my 401k if necessary, downsizing apartment or even car if squeezed.

In a lot of ways the timing couldn’t have been worse.  Two more years down the road, I would have had enough savings to comfortably take advantage of the lull to skip town for a cheaper (or maybe not) foreign city.  I could probably afford a year of reading books in Barcelona, or much longer in Antigua.  Either way, it would be easy to rationalize a break.  Extraordinary times offer the excuse to do what we really want to do.  But at the same time, I suppose that the current timing forced a sort of second adulthood on me that will shape my long term character for the better.  Meanwhile, thinking outside the box in terms of future possibilities and being nudged outside of my comfort zone will certainly alter my path in some interesting way sooner or later.  It’s a lot easier to be entreprenurial when there’s nothing (or much less than before) to lose.

Done living out of a suitcase (for now)

The past five weekends have been a whirlwind.  Dan and I were in Portland for Valentine’s Day/President’s weekend (his Christmas gift to me); then we retreated to a friend’s rural-ish cabin on the coast–literally, right on the edge, with whales–about two hours north of San Francisco; next we classed it up in Reno for a Tahoe ski weekend on the cheap.  The fourth weekend, I was supposed to head down to Orange County for a party with Dan’s family but it turned out that my family, including my favorite cousin who I had hoped to visit in Southern California, was going to be in San Francisco due to one of my uncle’s dermatology conferences.  Finally, last weekend, we took an extended (4-day!) weekend for a wedding and skiing in Park City, Utah.

Amongst the epic adventures were a culinary walking tour of Portland, my first visit to a strip club in Reno, and some of the best Tahoe skiing of my life which was supplanted shortly thereafter by even better skiing in Park City.  I’ve enjoyed the opportunity to get to know some new places, but it’s a relief to be home again in my beautiful city as the days are getting longer.

Sean Penn at the Academy Awards

For those who saw the signs of hatred as our cars drove in tonight, I think that it is a good time for those who voted for the ban against gay marriage to sit and reflect, and anticipate their great shame, and the shame in their grandchildren’s eyes if they continue that way of support. We’ve got to have equal rights for everyone.

Sean Penn did us proud tonight.  I have been reading The Mayor of Castro Street, and I also saw this mural on a wall in a new Castro store.

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Resolution retrospective

I’m not usually the type to be short on resolutions, but considering the fact that I haven’t even gotten around to thinking about them in any sort of depth until January 11 is pretty indicative of where I am right now.  Tonight, I read through old journal entries to review some of my past resolutions and get inspired.  I know that doing this (thinking about past resolutions) is supposed to get us down because it seems to be the American experience that they summarily fail, but it actually made me feel good about how far I have come.  Here’s an abridged recap:

2006

1) Graduate from college and complete honors thesis.

2) Move to San Francisco (specifically Hayes Valley).  Doing so required landing a job in advance of graduation so that there would be a seamless transition with no indeterminate stop over at Mom & Dad’s.  Job was acquired by March and apartment located in late May.  I live in the same place today and, as predicted, the neighborhood keeps getting better.  All subsequent roommates have worked out wonderfully.

2007

1) Get a new, career-type job.  I was ready to move on relatively quickly after the first job, but it taught me a great deal about what I should have been looking for (there’s no way I could have achieved such lucidity without that experience).  The new job was such a great fit that Rashel, one of my best friends from Stanford Urban Studies, joined the company in early 2008.  There are always frustrations with the obligatory exchange of time for rent money, but two years later, there is a very real, very physical product of my labor which will be open to the public before the end of 2009.  As my father wrote in an email recently, “Will be something to be able to ride past it 20 years from now and be able to say you [helped build] it.”

2) Start dating again.  Because of the overwhelming combination of adjusting to working life and being new to the city (not knowing many people or the neighborhoods all that well), I spent most of the second half of 2006’s liesure time with Netflix.  Fortunately, after several months of Netflix fidelity, my queue had started to dwindle, and I unexpectedly ended up in two somewhat short (3-5 months) but significant and formative relationships.  I took the proactive step of joining Match.com though nothing actually amounted from that experience other than the fact that the confidence of knowing I had options carried into other social interactions.

3) Work out.  Everyone knows this is a stupid and consistently failed resolution, but I did better than I had the previous year when being healthy was not even on the radar.

4) Independently purchase my first car (city-appropriate, as green as possible, preferably with service warranty).  This resolution was made later in the year when I had returned to the less than ideal automobile commute.  I ordered my MINI Cooper in June, and it arrived in late September.  It still makes me happy when I see it, and, even more than the better-than-average gas mileage, I’ve loved how compact it is.

2008

1) Financial: Pay off MINI Cooper within a year of purchase (accomplished in June) and start a 401k which would save tax money and be impossible to spend away (started in July).

2) Take a serious travel vacation without my family.  In July/August, I went to Barcelona (on a whim), London (to visit Amaya), and Paris (because I could).  I fell in love with Barcelona and have promised to return, though it can’t be added to the new resolutions just yet because there’s more I have to accomplish at home in San Francisco first.

3) Create a to do list with miscellaneous small tasks:

  • Establish a garden on my back patio.  Accomplished, though it needs some work now that the winter weather has deterred me from keeping up with maintenance.
  • Start composting.  This was a failed experiment, especially once I ended up in a relationship and was not home reliably to manage the stink.
  • “Local” travel: LA, Tahoe, Santa Barbara, Seattle, Portland.  I made several visits to LA since my cousin Henry now lives there and Dan’s family is in Orange County.  I also made it to Tahoe three times in the winter and two in the summer, which reignited my long lost love of skiing.  I stopped in Santa Barbara on the way home from Orange County after Thanksgiving and had one of the most amazing Indian dinners of my life.  Portland is scheduled for Valentine’s Day weekend this year (Christmas gift from Dan), but Seattle hasn’t been planned yet.  I could either go with Rashel since her family is there or hold off since Denise could end up in graduate school there.
  • Reading: I think I barely (if even) made my 5-book goal, but life is busy and I read a lot online.
  • Post on myurbanrevolution.com an average of once a week (check).
  • Get glasses because I can’t see (check).
  • Finally get a naval piercing.  I chickened out so this is still an open item.
  • Get a small dog or bird.  Aside from a pet making future apartment searches nearly impossible (one point for owning your own place), this was temporarily taken off the list due to aforementioned relationship which would have left my poor pet neglected.

2009

So far for 2009 (not yet organized):

1) Continue to get rid of useless clutter around my house (and my parents’ house) that I don’t need.

2) Save a specific amount of money so that I will one day have a down payment ready after the market has completed its tailspin.

Found in a tree early yesterday morning

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I don’t get the picture in the upper left corner nor is the spelling/grammar very good, but I enjoyed the serendipitous discovery of this rain-kissed Christmas love note from one stranger to another (apparently a neighbor) on my way to the car.

Filming in Hayes Valley

Morning of December 18–anyone know what was being filmed?

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